I haven't dated a lot of women in my life, but I have learned from those bad experiences. I've also learned even more from other people's bad experiences. There are certain negative traits in a woman that you need to look out for, gentlemen. If a woman you're dating exhibits ANY of these traits, you want to RUN LIKE HELL. Trust me.
1.) Drama Queens...
Does she blow everything out of proportion and try to turn everything into a fight? If so, just walk away now. The situation will never get any better. You will never have a moment's peace.
2.) Being flaky...
Does she not show up for dates you arranged with her days (or even weeks) ago? If so, walk away. If they can't be bothered to show up, chances are good they will never be overly affectionate.
3.) How they treat people in service positions...
Does she treat waiters, ticket takers and baristas like they're beneath her dignity? If so, I can virtually guarantee that she'll do that to you one day too.
4.) How do they react around their family? That's a good indicator of her personality. Specifically, is it different from how she acts around you when you're alone?
Does she act like an angel around her folks and a nasty little sex fiend around you when you're both alone? It doesn't even have to be that example. If her personality is significantly different around her family than it is in public or with you, RUN. She's not being honest with you about a great many things. She might also be mentally ill or hiding a number of insecurities by pretending to be someone else. You don't need that grief in your life.
5.) She wants to be treated like a Princess
This is especially prevalent with spoiled rich chicks and trophy wives that you know only married their geriatric husband for his money. Any man that wants to keep a woman will treat her right. However, how many of us can even afford to make the mistake of treating her like royalty? That is just not a realistic option. Women who have that idea are only going to be disappointed and take out their frustrations on you. Why don't you buy me the car I want? Why don't we go out more? You don't really love me if you don't buy me that necklace! Avoid these Gold-Diggers, gentlemen.
6.) Says all her Exes were jerks (which is statistically unlikely)
It's possible that all her exes were jerks, but this becomes less and less likely with the more people she dates over the course of her life. If she's in her twenties and all of her exes are still jerks, that means they probably weren't. The problem is likely to be with her. Even if all those guys were jerks, the problem is still with her because she keeps picking these losers. Run, bro!
7.) She's not flexible
Stubbornness is NOT ever an endearing trait. If she says 'My way or the Highway' head out to the Highway.
8.) Doesn't want you to spend time with your male friends
Even the most loving couples need a break from one another. Also, if she acts this way, she may be Overly Attached. Overly Attached Girlfriends are NOT what you want, bro. Trust me... Getting rid of them can be pretty dangerous too. You really do want to stay away from them. Seriously, just stay away from them. They're just a psycho-stalker waiting for a new target.
9.) Arguing with you all the time
Seems like she tries to make everything into an argument right now? Well, she'll keep doing that forever, dude. Get away now before she suckers you into marriage and kids. (Assuming she even wants those things...)
10.) You can't stand her friends
Remember, 'birds of a feather stick together'. So, if her friends are annoying as hell, then, she will eventually annoy you too. Do NOT marry that person.
11.) Acts violent toward you
Doesn't matter if she can hurt you or not. If she's trying to provoke you into a physical confrontation, then you need to run. The cops and courts are not likely to believe that she started the altercation.
12.) Different values and life goals (faith/spirituality, family plans, et al.)
If you're Christian & want kids and she's an atheist/Wiccan/Buddhist/et al. that hates children, then, why are you dating her? She'll never give you what you want. It will be a waste of your time and hers. Walk away right now. Don't look back.
13.) Rarely shows that she appreciates you...
Does it seem like she just doesn't care about you? Well, she probably doesn't. Go find someone who does appreciate you instead.
14.) Never apologizes for ANYTHING ever.
People who are arrogant enough to think that they are never wrong are just a walking time bomb of a nightmare, just waiting to happen. Get away from this self-absorbed, narcissistic, potentially psychopathic twatwaffle as fast as your legs can carry you.
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15.) She treats you like a child...
Why anyone would date a woman that acts like a mean-spirited mother instead of a lover, I will never know. However, I have seen a (supposed) man doing this to himself. I won't go into details about this poor soul letting a woman push him around. (And women should not let a man push them around, either.) Needless to say though, he was her bitch. He couldn't see it, but I could tell she didn't really respect him. She just liked having someone she could control, probably to hide her own insecurities.
I tried to clue him in on all of this in subtle ways. I would just say 'Don't let her push you around' or 'She shouldn't treat you that way' in very even, totally inoffensive tones of voice. He insisted on sticking up for her and tried to tell me that I didn't understand. Well, that's true. I don't understand why someone has those kind of masochistic tendencies. Grow a pair, shitbag. You're making the male of the species look bad.
- Publius
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